am i emotionally mature enough?

I’ve been wondering, am i emotionally mature enough in my age? when you can solve your problem, think clearly everytime you feel under pressure, being patience, withholding emotions, accepting critics, giving other people grown-up advices and opinions and they take a deal with it, take responsibility of what you did…. could i call ‘em ‘mature actions’? i guess not.

like Roger Allen said on his website (do you know him? no? oh yeah me too, i just found his website on Google, though) he defines,

“Emotional maturity as the ability to make good, positive, healthy choices during the challenges of life.”

Emotional Immaturity

• Reactive (Life happens to me)
• Act out emotions
• Governed by habit
• Come from fear/scarcity
• “Have to” motivation
• Getting (self-centered)
• Seek security and self-protection
• Avoid failure, rejection, discomfort
• Separation/alienation from others
• Live in the past/future

 Emotional Maturity

• Proactive (I make choices)
• Act on emotions
• Governed by vision/purpose
• Come from love/abundance
• “Choose to” motivation
• Giving (other-centered)
• Step outside comfort zone
• Seek growth
• Unity/goodwill with others
• Live in the present

so how do you defines 'mature',  then?

welcome to the 'entertainment' industry!

hello folks.

never been visiting my blog even for awhile, since 2 months ago. it was all because of flood of tasks and assignments. and now, i'm writing here, because this term is already done (let's say together, THANKS GOD!!!).

i wanna pour my feeling here, yeah i use 'pour' because so much feeling i had and i can't count to it. just like rain. i feel like i'm hardly any money throughout the year. i meant it because my task is not only a task that you could done it with laptop and Google, (and you let your parents pay the electricity bills) but with cameras, tripods, lightings, and ideas.  

makes tv programs! that was the point of my task.

just so you know baby, my outcome is waaay bigger than the income. however, i could say that i love to do my task. but i can't stand with the after-effect. but this is one of the consequences. and i'm brave enough to take it :)

*golly, my english turns bad. desperately need some books with english text!!!